Adam,

The news of your Father's passing was such a complete shock. It literally took the wind out of me and I can't begin to tell you how sad and disoriented I feel since learning of this. He was a friend of generous and genuine proportions I didn't really understand until I read your words. It's a little hard to go into in this forum but hopefully I'll have a chance to speak some other time.

In short, the man I knew loved the creative process, loved music and loved talent and discovering and nurturing it. And you are so right about the humor.. so on an uplifting note, let me share a short story... Joel, Llynda and I were having a bite at the Apple Jack on 55th and Broadway one afternoon. Your Dad decides he wants a milkshake so the waiter comes over and Joel states his desire and asks what flavors they had. The very Greek waiter replies, "we have whatever flavor you want", and in less than an instant Joel chimes, "oh, well I'll have the Chicken Mint!". You had to see his face and the reaction of the waiter. I had a sore stomach that evening from the laughter and I laugh out loud to this day when it pops into my head. It's just one of many incredible memories I have of those days and this very special man. He will be terribly missed.

If we are fortunate enough to live on through our spirit, the memories, influence and deeds we leave behind, your Father's legacy is a great one.

To David, Michael and Adam.. please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss.

Sincerely,
Mark Gendel